Were you close with your grandmother?
Very close. I grew up spending
all the holidays at her house. As I got older I started studying musical
theatre with her. I studied with her for years and most of the things she
taught me, I still use today.
What was the most important piece of advice your grandmother ever gave
you?
Never do anything on stage that
will compromise your values. My grandmother never wanted to portray
herself in a light that was questionable to her. It might not be
questionable to other people but she never wanted it to be questionable to
herself. In her era, she had to be more protected and had an innocence
about her. She was a sex symbol in spite of her innocence. She wasn’t a
sex symbol because of trying to put it out there. She was so classy and I
think that was her big allure. That was probably the biggest thing I took
away from having my relationship with my grandmother. I feel pretty old
fashioned when it comes to entertainment and what I think is proper. She
would also tell me to remain true to my vocal style. I’d hear her say
“None of that chest belting” She wanted me to sing legit rather than belt.
Is there anything you could tell me about your grandmother that sticks
out in your mind?
She always had dogs. You would
walk into this glorious mansion where she lived and there were always ten
or so dogs around….with three on her lap. She had the best of everything
yet she was so down to earth. Her favorite meal was a piece of steak,
baked potato and vegetables. She knew that she was blessed and never had
any sense of entitlement. She was a big believer in God but not a big
believer in organized religion. In her later years, when she was sick, she
clung to that belief. She clung to her faith and family was everything to
her.
When she died I got letters and
emails from all over the world from young kids who were studying music who
were in love with my grandmother. She was such an inspiration to so many
young singers, to this day. There was no predecessor to what she did. She
was a part of the golden age and there’s never going to be that again.
There wasn’t a generation to look to for an example. They were the first.
What was her performance background?
She wanted to be an opera singer.
She got snatched up by Hollywood and they let her do her opera on film.
Showboat which she starred in was basically the first American musical and
she was the perfect person to do that with all of her opera training. She
also starred on Broadway in “Camelot”. She took over for Julie Andrews and
then starred in the national tour for two years.
Many of her leading men fell in love with her. Can you talk a little
about that?
They loved her. She was engaged
to Howard Hughes. When he was courting her he would actually throw paper
bugs filled with diamonds over her gate and on to her front lawn. I
remember Howard Keel coming to my birthday party and I would go to his
daughters birthday party as well.